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Does Anyone Ever Feel That Having Fibro Puts A Huge Strain On A Marriage?

A MyFibroTeam Member asked a question 💭
Swansea, UK
February 28, 2024
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Members opened up about the significant strain fibromyalgia places on marriages, sharing how the condition changes who they are as partners... Read more

Members opened up about the significant strain fibromyalgia places on marriages, sharing how the condition changes who they are as partners and shifts household dynamics, with one member describing how their marriage ended when they gave their spouse the opportunity to leave. Several members expressed deep gratitude for supportive partners who help with daily tasks and offer reassurance, though many also described carrying guilt about not being the person or spouse they once were, struggling with self-image, and worrying about becoming a burden. A recurring theme was the importance of mutual support, seeking therapy to strengthen the relationship, and finding grace in accepting love despite feeling changed by chronic illness.

A MyFibroTeam Member

My marriage ended 6 months ago due to my illness it destroys the person we are and changes us and it’s a lot for people to cope with so I gave my wife the opportunity to walk away and she did , we’re still friends and chat most days but it was for the best that we separated x

February 29, 2024
A MyFibroTeam Member

Yes most definitely. The partner of a person with S has so much more put on them to maintain family income and standard of living, plus pick up more household tasks.

February 29, 2024
A MyFibroTeam Member

Definitely, I'm lucky to have my husband though as he looks after me and does mostly everything for me , I still worry though I'm not the perfect wife now I look at myself in mirror and think I'm fat how can I make myself look better. But then I realise my hubby loves me for me not my looks he always calls me beautiful and doesn't judge me being fat . I'm very lucky to have him

March 20, 2024
A MyFibroTeam Member

Thanks all ❤️

February 29, 2024
A MyFibroTeam Member

It's more the fact I'm such a different person and wife since diagnosed

February 29, 2024

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