I know she doesn't believe 'Fibromyalgia" is a bonified illness/disease. She tries to get a rise out of me 'always and forever🎶 until the end of time. Trust me, I've been through the wringer because of her. I love my husband dearly, this is why I venture to walk into the home in the first place! We're solid, truly we are. I know she dumps on him at every turn (I'm incognito with ninja tendencies) His dad is married to her, if my husband wants to visit him, she is right there, around the… read more
@A MyFibroTeam Member Well said !
I've actually extingushed a fire by repeating "God Bless you!" A dear Sister friend recomended me trying this method.
The person did not know how to react. First it was what the ????
Then stomped off and door slam.
There is really nothing one can do to help people like this understand our daily lives.
Love the comment of Pixwix. That should really stop her in her tracks and give you an out to walk away.
Also @A MyFibroTeam Member gave great ideas also.
Just be the wonderful, loving woman that you are. You don't need to change for anyone.
Wishing you a very restful evening and a good day tomorrow.
Sending warm, gentle, healing hugs, love, peace and prayers.
God Bless and keep you safe. ❤️🙏❤️🙏
LaRosa
@A MyFibroTeam Member
I had to do it with my son. After 25 years of trying I woke up one day and said. Enough. That was 7 years ago. He is close to 50 . So yes I was a slow learner, but now life is very different. I sure know now what is acceptable in my life in order to live the best life possible. There will always be sleepless nights, pain, fatigue and a myriad of other nuisance factors that go with the multiple chronic conditions we have, and they all irritate and rark-up one another. It’s more than enough to deal with daily without nay-sayers as well. So to anyone out there struggling with someone whose negativity is tearing you apart, take heart from those of us who have put a stop to it, and find that courage and energy to act coz it is vital to your well-being. We are here for you.
Be kind to yourselves everyday, we all need those loving gentle hugs, that keep us going forward into life as we know it now...
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@A MyFibroTeam Member
The Bible says by being kind and not reacting you heap fiery coals on their head. Meaning you extinguish their power and keep your peace