I was the same way. The doctor put me adderal . it was great for my memory and keeping on task at work I even got a promotion

I write everything down. When I have dr appts etc I put it in my planner, as well as when my bills are due, etc. I have terrible brain fog. I have to make sure I put my keys in the same place every day, and when I go to stores I always park in the the same row or two so I can find my car. lol.

I live by my calendar where I can set reminders...set the reminders for when you need to mail it and when it is due...Magnesium has help me greatly...slow things down...just a little bit...even more then you already have.

I'm having same issues but not as intense . First u r not stupid, I've been told when in chronic pain your thought process is overwhelmed. Try to breathe slowly in and out and relax, go slow too. My self confidence with house or work related secretarial task is affected due to the fact I do something and swear it is correct when in fact I made a mistake.

I have the same issues. I am taking care of mom and her bills too...not good. Keep me posted.