No sex drive whatsoever! No interest at all xx

My sex life is the best it has ever been, I think I may be tiring my husband though.He is so considerate and gentle .We have only been married 3 yrs. But wow never been made love to like this before, I think you should perhaps start the lovemaking process yourself and let your other half no when your tired,then maybe go a little longer the next time.Or just cuddle and touch just see if your ready to go further.Not everyone has the same desires or sexual appetite.Go with what you can manage and enjoy.

We have found this too - I know everyone feels fibro differently but I find it best laying on my side with my husband behind me and do different variations on this theme. As I can't bear any weight on me at all this is the safest position for me. I feel it more in my back as I have spondylosis in my spine as well as problems with my left hip and arthritis. Do try different things and there's always the option of sitting on his knee on the end of the bed! Take care x

I had my hysterectomy young also and have had pain with intercourse every since. The depression and fatigue has really done a number on my sex drive and self-esteem. Fortunately my husband is still here and we will be having our 24th anniversary on Monday.

Thank you Forsakenangel. I could not have said it better. My sex life suffered too when first diagnosed with Fm. Hubby and I sat down with my Dr and discussed it, as it was due to side effects from my medication. Not easy to go through. Eventually after about 2years I started being interested in sex again. When you include your partner in everything that you going through, then they understand and being intimate is not about sex only. It's when they see how much effort you put in trying to get the relationship back to normal, that the willing to try as well.