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I am now going to be home schooling my daughter due to another incident in school. So all the stress, anger, worry, and tension is coming out of me. I feel so tired and cold like symptoms. Is this normal when your distressing and can this lead to a flare? I really hope not I now have things to do.

June 11
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Members responded warmly to a question about whether cold or flu-like symptoms can signal a fibromyalgia flare, with the overwhelming... Read more

Members responded warmly to a question about whether cold or flu-like symptoms can signal a fibromyalgia flare, with the overwhelming consensus being yes, this is very common. Several members shared personal experiences of chills, muscle aches, nausea, exhaustion, and swollen lymph nodes as early warning signs of a flare, and one member explained this is tied to how fibromyalgia affects the central nervous system during times of stress. A recurring theme was the importance of self-care during flares, including rest, meditation, and reducing stress, with many members expressing hope that homeschooling would bring relief from the anxiety triggering the flare.

A MyFibroTeam Member

Ok if anyone is tired of my standard answer please ignore me. This is a common fibromyalgia central nervous system response. Your cns in fibromyalgia is overwhelmed and you cannot process what is happening therefore you get many unexplained symptoms. I have found this out for studying for many different years and by personal experience. You can find more info on this by looking up fibromyalgia how does my central nervous system get affected. I hope this is helpful. I can attest to these symptoms and I feel you.💖💜☯️I wish you well.

June 12
A MyFibroTeam Member

Yes. I try with all my might to focus on what I can control and what I can not control.

Dawn gave excellent advice. I had to learn that taking care of myself wasn't selfish. Rather, it's essential.

That's something I can control.

Only then I can take care of others.

A place to start... meditation.

June 12
A MyFibroTeam Member

Thank you to all of you. @A MyFibroTeam Member we have been saying that all day that my flares will calm down now we are home schooling her. No more worry or stress. I just feel so tired and ill but it will pass. Xxx

June 12
A MyFibroTeam Member

Thank you @A MyFibroTeam Member I will try. Having a little celebration party tomorrow so that's quite relaxing as its just us. A few games and laughs just a nice relaxing atmosphere xxx

June 12
A MyFibroTeam Member

Thanks for asking this question because it's one that I get confused by.
And really, whether you're ill due to a virus or ill due to a flare up, you still deserve care, rest, and help. You have to take care of you.

But back to the flare up question that I grapple with: It can be confusing in part because a cold aka rhinovirus vs flu aka actual influenza vs norovirus (gastrointestinal illness) are such varying symptoms of various illnesses. And I don't know about you but whenever I get ill I get a flare up of fibromyalgia.

Feeling in general the sense of being "run down" can definitely be a clue that we're in a fibromyalgia flare up for me personally.
Feeling extra pain can, too.

For me, though, the symptom of having swollen lymph nodes in my neck/throat area before a flare up is my major signal. Something happens with my immune system when it comes to flare ups.

Sorry if my reply is too long-winded and bottom line I just hope you feel better friend!

June 12

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