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Members expressed shared frustration over hearing dismissive advice like "just get out more" or "drink more water" from people who don't... Read more

Members expressed shared frustration over hearing dismissive advice like "just get out more" or "drink more water" from people who don't understand the debilitating reality of fibromyalgia, with many describing how friends, family, and even doctors minimize their pain as laziness or something that can be fixed with simple lifestyle changes. Several members shared that while some close family and friends have learned over time to respect their limitations, others still don't grasp the unpredictable and exhausting nature of flare-ups that can leave them homebound or needing rescue. A recurring theme was the wish that skeptics could experience just one of their worst fibromyalgia days to truly understand the agonizing pain and how it robs them of the active lives they desperately want to live.