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I have chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia for well over 25 years. But this fatigue is different, totally exhausting, it is so persistent I can barely function most days. It seems like nothing relieves it. I have been to so many doctors and their answer is an astounding "I don't know". I feel like my life is just passing my by and I can't do anything about it.

February 2, 2023
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Members deeply connected over the question of managing extreme, persistent fatigue that feels different from typical chronic fatigue or... Read more

Members deeply connected over the question of managing extreme, persistent fatigue that feels different from typical chronic fatigue or fibromyalgia, sharing the frustration of doctors responding with "I don't know" and the struggle to complete even basic daily tasks. Several members offered practical guidance, including getting a CCP blood test through a rheumatologist to rule out RA, pursuing updated sleep studies, seeking doctors who specialize in fibromyalgia with good bedside manner by checking reviews, and reframing daily achievements by celebrating small wins like making the bed or cooking one meal. A recurring theme was the emotional toll of feeling dismissed by medical professionals, the importance of self-advocacy and becoming your own detective, and the comfort of finding community members who truly understand the isolation and exhaustion of living with invisible illness.

A MyFibroTeam Member

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February 15, 2023
A MyFibroTeam Member

I feel the same way and its just getting worse. I try everyday to do stuff , but i think my marriage is suffering from the way i feel😞

February 10, 2023
A MyFibroTeam Member

Sounds good to me. If you give me your number perhaps we can set up a time to talk. I have am looking to change my primary care doctor and if I can find one that understands this condition, it would be great. This fatigue is debilitating all the time.

February 9, 2023
A MyFibroTeam Member

@A MyFibroTeam Member I can help you with good docs from your area. I have become a little detective and those docs have to treat fibromyalgia. I dont know if you have found out yet but we very rarely test positive for things that you just know you have. I want to help. I have been there before and wanted to pull all my hair out. If you are interested, I will give you my number. This will help me too find my purpose too.🤗

February 9, 2023
A MyFibroTeam Member

I did go to two rheumatologists, the first one tested me for RA, Lupus and Lyme disease and when I tested negative for those she basically said "I don't know". I said send me to someone who might know, recommend someone, she didn't know who to send me to. I saw a second rheumatologist who asked why I was there, I told her I am exhausted every day. She did a brain MRI because I was getting daily headaches. My scan was normal except for showing signs of suffering migraines, which I did for years. I am so frustrated, I don't know where to turn. I got a new primary care doctor and she is a joke. So I guess I look for another one.You are so right, they just don't get it. They say sleep longer, that makes it worse. I know what chronic fatigue is I've had it for well over 25 years, this is different. But no one wants to listen or take you seriously.

February 6, 2023

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