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Bellingham, WA

I used to be even tempered and upbeat. Now I am a grumpy beast. My energy is limited and pain is a constant companion. I get irrataed waiting in line, because it hurts to stand. I interupt you when your conversation wanders, because I have a hard time focusing. Get to the point or you will loose me
I get resentful that I miss out on fun activities because my body is ravaged with this unmerciful malady
I brush off sympathy because there is no way you can possibly know my misery.
Whew...
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October 21, 2020
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Members deeply related to the question about fibromyalgia changing personality, with many describing themselves as once happy, easy-going, and... Read more

Members deeply related to the question about fibromyalgia changing personality, with many describing themselves as once happy, easy-going, and social people who now feel grumpy, irritable, isolated, and frustrated by constant pain, fatigue, and cognitive fog that limits their ability to show up as their former selves. Several members shared practical coping strategies including taking time-outs when overwhelmed, staying home on bad days to avoid snapping at others, soaking in baths with candles for self-care, and learning to set boundaries without guilt as they prioritize their own needs over others' expectations. A recurring theme was the grief of losing one's old personality and missing out on relationships and activities, balanced by resilience and self-compassion, with some members finding strength in humor, fighting harder to participate in life, and accepting that frustration is a natural response to living with such limiting symptoms rather than a character flaw.

A MyFibroTeam Member

I dont think its that we are grumpy but rather that we are frustrated by the limitations fibro puts on us. Make time to look after yourself even if its a soak im the bath for half an hour with some candles on x

October 23, 2020
A MyFibroTeam Member

Yes I think your personality does change. I know I use to be a very happy go lucky person. Now I am several of the seven dwarves. I’m grumpy, sleepy, bashful, and a lot of times dopey. I have just gotten use to it.

October 21, 2020
A MyFibroTeam Member

Makes depressed and sound mad sometimes.

October 21, 2020
A MyFibroTeam Member

Definitely Yes I get grumpy especially when I hardly get any sleep, lately I am always tired.
But I agree I think Fibromyalgia has changed my personality, unfortunately I still have a short fuse, no longer trust people, hate crowds. Have a short memory as well, that truly annoys me so much, say something and half an hour later I can't remember what I said.

What truly changed my personality was when I had perimenopause I was angry all the time, a screeching banshee at times.
So hard to live with.
But I still have a short fuse even now.

It certainly isn't a joy having Fibromyalgia, so many things have changed. Especially other illnesses you get as well.

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October 22, 2020 (edited)
A MyFibroTeam Member

Very good post and question. MY personality is the same, but I’m a lot tougher and stronger from going through everything. I’m more crabby etc for sure because of the pain etc. I stay home if I’m having a bad day...so that I don’t say anything weird or get angry with someone because of the pain. And like you, I take a time out in my bedroom if I can’t take the noise or stimuli...makes me a more pleasant person t live with! Lol!

October 21, 2020

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