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Prineville, OR

I'm new to Fibromyalgia. I have been I tremendous pain and fatigue now for about 8 weeks. My doctor first thought MS but no lessons so now thinking fibro. This started after a flu vaccine so guessing it flared up something I was developing. I work long days, stressful job and long commute. I manage about 2-3 hours of energy at a time... How do you work with this, does it subside enough to work? I'm pretty tough and have had chronic back pain from an injury when I was young but this pain is… read more

February 14, 2018
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Members responded to a newly diagnosed person asking whether fibromyalgia flares subside enough to continue working, with many sharing the... Read more

Members responded to a newly diagnosed person asking whether fibromyalgia flares subside enough to continue working, with many sharing the difficult reality that some were forced to leave their jobs in their 30s due to unrelenting pain and fatigue, while acknowledging that others with less severe symptoms do manage to keep working. Several members emphasized the importance of accepting a new normal, learning personal limits through trial and error, and prioritizing self-care over the lifelong pattern of caregiving for others. A recurring theme was that pushing through stress and ignoring the body's signals often leads to worsening symptoms, and that creating a dramatically different, slower-paced life can lead to periods of being relatively pain-free and finding new sources of meaning and joy.

A MyFibroTeam Member

I had to give up work tbat was really hard as ive worked all my life. felt useless and unable to contribut to the homebut ñow ive come to terms witb it jan.

February 14, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

Thank you so much, I'm sorry you were so young when you were dealing with this. I have had chronic back pain since an injury at 19, that was bad enough. I can't imagine dealing with this constant pain during my 30, 40s. :( I'm hopeful this will subside but it's been at least 8 weeks and it's only increased. Well I'll do what I can, what more can we do. Thanks again for sharing, it's really helpful.

February 15, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

I had to give up work as well. I did some volunteering for a while because I just couldn't accept in my 30's (some 3 decades ago) that I couldn't do what "I normally" could. Some people with less severe symptoms keep on working, but that was not the case for me, unfortunately.

February 15, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

oh bless you somtimes we have to dslow down and put yourself first.gentle hugs jan.x

February 14, 2018
A MyFibroTeam Member

Thank you for this information. If this truly ends up being my dx (still waiting on neurologist to rule it a couple more things) I'm afraid I will have to make some big changes as well. After reading experiences on here the last couple days it's making more and more sense and fits everything I've been dealing with. I've lived a busy, self sufficient, stressful, full time mother, caregiver for family and worker for 30 years. I've never slowed down long enough to focus on myself although I've tried to stay healthy. I'm not sure I'm even going to know where to begin. I really appreciate having this forum for questions and support. Thank you.

February 14, 2018

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