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June 2, 2017
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Members rallied around someone struggling through day three of a fibromyalgia flare, sharing that crying is not only normal but often helpful... Read more

Members rallied around someone struggling through day three of a fibromyalgia flare, sharing that crying is not only normal but often helpful for releasing pain and stress. Several members described their go-to comfort strategies, including hot baths with Epsom salts, heating pads or electric blankets, muscle relaxers, prayer, gentle stretching, and allowing themselves plenty of rest without guilt. A recurring theme was the importance of accepting limitations during a flare, giving yourself grace when you can't do everything, and finding small comforts that help you endure until the storm passes.

A MyFibroTeam Member

I do hot showers or cold ones depending on how I'm feeling. Heating pads come next or ice packs. Do a lot of praying. Try stretching some...if you feel like crying, then do it. Sometimes you'll feel better after a good cry and then a nap. Talking to friends and others who know about fibro helps. Good luck and gentle hugs

June 2, 2017
A MyFibroTeam Member

I've just had 2 weeks straight and only had a good day today. I just ride it out and accept that I can't do anything. I get really depressed and angry when I cant do house work but you have to let your body rest otherwise it will be ongoing for longer

June 2, 2017
A MyFibroTeam Member

@A MyFibroTeam Member Everyone above me gave excellent suggestions. I also have had flares lasting months. So I guess you can say it's different for everyone and each flare is different from your other flares depending on the trigger.

I have always tried to give myself as much rest and heating pad as I can. Easier to do since I'm retired. My kids were young when I got injured. It was hard to get things done and rest.

The first thing I look at when I have a flare is the quality of my sleep. For me it is key so I work on that first..generally difficult for me to do.

June 2, 2017
A MyFibroTeam Member

@A MyFibroTeam Member So sorry for your pain, Denise. It's not fun, I know. I was in a bad flare after Mother's Day. It lasted for over a week. Felt like I had been hit by a truck!!! I prayed, rested a lot, hot shower, walking slow, resting more and then resting more...oh, and crying. Nothing wrong with crying now and then. God gave us those tears for a reason...for me they help release pain. Have a cry and then get back up and fight like the true warrior you are! It will end. Get a piece of cardboard or paper and write big with a marker "THIS TOO SHALL PASS" keep it by you when you can! Read it often and repeat it when needed. It will pass, even though it doesn't feel like it. πŸ€— I will send up a prayer for you right now. Gentle hugs to you too πŸ’–πŸ€—πŸ™

June 2, 2017 (edited)
A MyFibroTeam Member

We have a jacuzzi and that helps a whole bunch! Warmth and lots of it. A quiet room and rest

June 2, 2017

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