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July 27, 2015
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Members rallied around a young man questioning his fibromyalgia diagnosis, firmly reassuring him that the condition does not discriminate by... Read more

Members rallied around a young man questioning his fibromyalgia diagnosis, firmly reassuring him that the condition does not discriminate by age or gender, with several sharing stories of men in their families living with fibro, children diagnosed as young as four, and their own experiences being told they were too young. Many members described how trauma, whether physical or emotional, often triggers fibromyalgia onset, and emphasized that disbelief from others is a universal experience in the fibro community that becomes easier to handle by surrounding yourself with supportive loved ones who see and validate your pain. A recurring theme was the importance of focusing on your own recovery rather than convincing doubters, with practical advice to share resources like spoon theory and the letter to normals to help educate friends and family who genuinely want to understand what living with unpredictable chronic pain truly feels like.

A MyFibroTeam Member

Usually when a man says he's in pain, Dr's will take them seriously. They figure you won't complain if you aren't in extreme pain. That being said there are still a lot of Doctors that believe Fibro is a condition of Women. I know different. It runs in my family and I've seen the signs in my son. He fights it and will not complain most the time, but it shows in his body and voice tone. His Father was diagnosed with it around the same time I did. He seems to have recovered. So we know it is possible in young people. Here are some reference points:
1. http://www.webmd.com/fibromyalgia/guide/fibromy...
2. http://consumer.healthday.com/sleep-disorder-in...

August 2, 2015
A MyFibroTeam Member

We have enough stress in our lives even without someone questioning us and our pain.
I have learned over the years to ignore those people because the only people that matter in my life are my loved ones.
And my loved ones do not question me, they support me.
In the past if someone did question me I would respond with four simple words; "If you only knew!" Then I would walk away and leave them standing there.

July 30, 2015
A MyFibroTeam Member

Nobody is too young for this. Although a friend if mine sister had it young and was bedridden and one day came out of it. God blessed her hugely.

July 28, 2015
A MyFibroTeam Member

I'm 23 and I've had it since i was about 13 so age doesnt matter. And anyone can get it, i think it comes down to genetic predisposition and also to traumatic life experience (physical or emotional). Don't let people get to you. Even when you're a woman at the age that is typical for people to have it, some people won't believe you. Its hard in a society that doesn't acknowledge an issue when its not visible. When someone asks if its in my head, I like to say.. yeah its in my head the same way the pain would be in your head if i punched you in the arm really hard right now. (Wanna see?) - last part depends on how peeved I am or if im joking or not lol. Keep your chin up and F the haters.

July 28, 2015
A MyFibroTeam Member

There are a few men on this site that have it. I have also meet a few men that also have it . It is more common in women but men do get it too. I don't think age has anything to do with it in the beginning its if you had a trauma in your life that has set it off. Hope you have a good day!

July 27, 2015

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