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Boise, ID

My husband said, “you never make homemade soup for me. In fact, you hardly even cook!”

To which i replied, “when you push a grandchild out of your vagina, I’ll cook for you too!” 😂
I can’t believe we even had that conversation, but we did. I wore myself completely out taking care of them. And I’d do it again in a minute.

My husband, on the other hand, is a grown-ass man.🤣 He’s right about my cooking. The kids are adults, so why should i worry about meals anymore. Food has never been that… read more

January 29, 2022
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Members opened up about the shifting household dynamics that come with chronic pain, with some partners stepping up to cook, clean, and handle... Read more

Members opened up about the shifting household dynamics that come with chronic pain, with some partners stepping up to cook, clean, and handle heavy chores while others struggle to anticipate needs without being asked. Several members shared practical strategies including batch cooking and freezing meals like meatloaves and soups, using crockpots for easy prep, ordering grocery delivery, and embracing minimalism to reduce cleaning demands. A recurring theme was the invisible nature of chronic illness, the guilt and frustration of not being able to do what once came easily, and the deep gratitude for family members who recognize the reality of pain even when it cannot be seen.

A MyFibroTeam Member

I don't have a partner. I live with my son and his son. I used to do more than my son, but the last 3 years I have had to slow down. Between RA, fibro and osteoarthritis, it's harder and harder to get much done. Now they do most of it.

January 30, 2022
A MyFibroTeam Member

My husband love cooking so on his days off he cooks. As far as cleaning the house I do most of it even though it takes me a few days because I can mop the floors and then my back starts hurting. I will have to sit down.

January 30, 2022
A MyFibroTeam Member

I do clean and vacuum, but it is a no go on real bad days. Minimalization is now my goal. Thankful for the appliances. Robots are useful if you can afford them. The cleaning is part of increase exercise and activity.

January 30, 2022
A MyFibroTeam Member

Unfortunately I do most of the housework the washing, cooking and cleaning my Husband does help me with washing up after Lunch Meal.
For some unknown reason I haven't been able to make soup very well, I used to but I haven't been able to lately. 💖💗❤️

February 1, 2022
A MyFibroTeam Member

One of my favorite soups is extremely easy. 4 cans of any canned beans you like drained , one or two cans of chile con carne and one can of mushroom soup. Put all in the slow cooker and stir. Simmer a couple of hours. Serve with French bread, tortillas, cornbread or crackers. It tastes great and is everyone thinks you worked very hard to make it.

January 31, 2022

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