This question is so hard for me (not as hard as "rate your pain on a scale of 1-10"). If you answer truthfully, you run the risk of alienating the asker or appearing as though "you're carrying on" and whining for attention. If you lie and say "I'm fine", then that's exactly what they think and don't believe you when the very next day you're not so fine. I usually just answer, "I'm moderately okay" which gets a laugh and then the attention is diverted from me. How do YOU answer the question?
that is one question I have always lied about and now I plan to answer truthfully and let people know how I am doing. I am tired of hiding my condition and the more I let people know the more information will get out to others. By doing this recently I found out a person at works suffers everyday as I do with fibro. so you never know just be matter of fact and answer with truth
U say I'm doing the best I know how!
I am very honest with my husband and if I am not feeling good I tell him I just don't feel good today. he is very good to rub my back, legs etc scratch my back and on and on so I tell him how I feel or he can see by the way the house looks as to how I feel. It is the look of pity on his face I can not stand. Just hear I do not feel ok help if you can but don't pity me it does neither of us any good
This is an excellent question. Folks are right that a lot of people who ask you this don't really want to know. If it is a rough day, I muster my best smile and answer "I am hanging in there" (because I am) and on a good day I say "I am doing well". Then I am not lying, but it doesn't sound like I am complaining either.
Oh wow... This is a very good question. I guess it differs for me. I get really tired of speaking the truth and tired of lying as well. I guess most of the time I say I'm good. Or I'm ok. People tend to run in the other direction when spoke the truth.